isinganyway, you've already received some good advice. I'd just add that for me it was important to remember that boredom, relationships, work, my overall happiness—those aren't necessarily recovery issues. They're life issues, things all people face. In a way the fact we're facing them is proof that we're now living a healthy, normal life. And if we want to change, we can look at the same kinds of solutions that people outside of recovery use.
Sobriety may not be the whole solution, but it's most certainly not the problem.
Last edited by ReadyAndAble; 02-04-2013 at 08:32 PM.
Reason: change "not living" to "now living"