I will definately have him ask. Some of them have got to have family a little closer to my age. I don't want to sound like a turd but it made a difference to me. I thought about it last night and all day, I just don't think I would be comfortable sharing things with this group. Definately not the way I speak. I felt like I was sitting in my grandmothers knitting class, being instructed by the preachers wife. Not saying anything bad about them, Im sure they are all wonderful women, it's just difficult for me to feel comfortable.