LaTeeDa,
Perfect!
MamaKit
Whether you decide to stay or leave at that point is irrelevant. It's the acceptance that frees you.
In my case, I wasn't letting go until I had been sufficiently dragged and psychologically beaten to a bloody pulp. What I see here is not judgement or impatience, but the desire to prevent someone else from going through hell. Trouble is, we all have to go through our own personal hell, otherwise we don't learn the lessons.