I haven't made any big changes yet. Trying to keep the routine for a while. Our lives, sadly, have hardly changed at all because he was an isolating alcoholic and didn't spend much time with us anyway.
I did sign us up for some family counseling. I told the kids, "The fact that your father moved out and you say you are perfectly fine IS the problem." Unfortunately, there is no Alateen our area, so hopefully the counseling will help.
As for myself, I just feel sort of numb inside.