laurie
WOW Laurie..Thank you. What a powerful message. The Al Anon meeting in our area takes place next Saturday at 6:00. I can visualize me running to get into the door first. Here's my immediate problem. I told him last Sunday I was mad as he** at him and didn't want to see or hear from him until I"M ready and he just said okay. And for some reason I'm just fine with that right now.
We have a family gathering coming up this weekend and it includes his little daughter (my darling granddaughter), that we only get to see every other weekend. Besides my husband and I are the ones who have to "pick her up and deliver her to his place" as per court order. Any advice you can give me would be soooo helpful. And this is the part that pi**es me off to no end! Why can't he understand how many people are affected by this?? Do I ignore him like he's 'invisible'. I honestly don't know how to handle this one. Thank you for your prayers and thoughts..I soooo need them right now!