I have just broken up with an alcoholic. It's so difficult dealing with him, especially when he's wanting to drink or has been drinking. He was sober for over six months and did real good. Now he's drinking again. His personality changes so much and he becomes critical and sarcastic (it's teasing according to him). I have not learned to detach yet. It just seems easier to leave the relationship because it's not what I want for the rest of my life. Any suggestions on how to deal with this?