Originally Posted by
Xune 
My entire point that I am trying to get across is for the OP to figure out what the root cause of the dysfunction is and then instead of treating the symptoms ( child acting out), deal with the underlying problem.
What would benefit a child more;
A safe and neutral place to vent about his drunk dad or a sober dad who is in recovery?
Are you suggesting that the OP has the power & control to
force her AH into recovery?
Because yes, obviously having the child's dad in recovery would be ideal.... but IMO not something that his spouse can dictate or control. She has no choice but to treat the symptoms.... it's not her disease.