Amen! I am not certain I would be willing to try any relationship right now because I am not real sure how I got my myself in this horrible abusive mess! What I will say is that I pray I will never allow anyone to abusive me like my XABF. I never thought it was so abusive but now that I step back....WOW! I was so busy protecting and wanting his love and attention I failed to notice! However, if I ever should have another relationship I would also like those things.