Originally Posted by
drunkyjules 
She is probably waiting for my excuse but I need to just tell her. I know she loves me either way.
Can someone give me some courage.
You just said she will love you either way, so you don't need courage. Can you just tell her? Are you worried she'll spill the beans to your mutual friends?
I haven't read everybody's responses, so sorry if I'm saying what someone else already said.
Just to lighten the mood, I heard a guy speaking at a meeting and he said, "I always knew I was an alcoholic because all my friends told me I was."
Seriously though, it is a sensitive subject and I wouldn't tell someone if I thought they had loose lips. But that's not really a consideration for me because my friends live in different places and don't know one another. I didn't plan it that way, it's just the way it is.