Hi Jules,
I know I have skipped a few invites since deciding to stop drinking, I didn't want to put myself in a situation that would tempt me to drink.
I have told my husband, mom, one sister in law, and two of my closest friends. It is nice to have support from them. However, your decision to tell her is one you should be comfortable with. Maybe you can meet up with your friend to go for a walk, or get pedicures. Something that would still allow you to hang out, but that doesn't involve alcohol.
Good luck with your decision.
