I'm not sure what to say. I'm early along in recovery myself however, like you, most of the drinking i did was at home. Going out was usually not a big deal. I fully belive that comming out is a very personal decision that only you can decide whom to tell. If I were as uncomfortable as this situation seems to have ya feelin'. I think I'd give it some more time. Not worth a relapse. Let us know how your doing, Jules.