not address the facts of what's NOT mine, I am putting the bug in my, well, I think I prefer putting in my ear, like a bee.
lol....GM.....it doesn't matter where that bee winds up.....if we take it.....it's uncomfortable.
Often......for me......the best thing I can do to prevent "taking the bug" is to simply walk away. But the first step is always recognizing when there's a bug in the room and who it belongs to.......
gentle hugs
ke