Well, he refused to leave, so the kids and I packed for one night and left to spend the night at a friends house. I left a note saying we would be back at noon to pack the rest of our stuff if he was still there. I spoke with his brother last night, who was going to go to the house and try to convince him to leave, at least for the sake of the children.
My heart is breaking. I'm not angry...just so, so sad.