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Old 01-20-2013, 06:36 AM
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DeKalbgirl
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Help! Losing my resolve

Not going to give the whole backstory here. Last night I told AH husband that I wanted to separate and I asked him to leave. After many hours of discussion (him trying to manipulate me and get me to change my mind) he stated that he was absolutely not leaving. I told him, "By tomorrow, either you leave or I'm leaving."

I thought this might happen, so I set up a place in advance for the kids and I to go. (if the kids wanted to come with me, which they do.) He could easily just go live with his mother.

So this morning I woke up to a long letter about how much he loves us and how he can't get better without us. Plus I really don't want to move into my friend's basement! I never actually thought he would refuse to leave.

I'm losing my resolve....help.....
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