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Old 01-18-2013, 11:08 AM
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babygrandx
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Join Date: Jan 2013
Location: Daytona Beach
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"2 sickies don't make a wellie"
...so true.

They don't have "rules", but it is suggested to stay out of a relationship your first year of recovery. This is the time to focus on YOU, and getting better. Of course, everyone is different. I met my boyfriend when I had 40 days clean, he had almost 5 years clean. We now live together and are expecting a child together. You have to ask yourself how much you truly have to offer in a relationship, and be 100% honest with the answer.

Don't forget, you can't give love to someone the way they deserve to be loved until you truly, unconditionally love yourself.
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