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Old 01-16-2013, 06:38 PM
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incitingsilence
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Nice to read this realization.

Look not real popular opinion but many find recovery without meetings and sponsors, but most that I know did some real work on themselves. The type where you rip yourself open, find who you are, why you are as you are especially if you don’t like what you have become ( I didn’t at all ) and with brutal honesty. The best gift you can give to you is to be honest with yourself about you at all times.

And I’m with dolly and found the same … my husband was never my problem even if he was an awesome distraction. My trigger was and will always be my mother and so much of why I was as I was in good and bad ways was from my childhood.

Healing that madness was my ticket to peace and freedom…I find for most you got to go back real far and fix then for a chance at today. Step four, nasty bit of madness, from all perspectives, tends to be real enlightening if you are ready to see/tell the truth no matter what it is. That outline for recovery I sent you can help as well, but you got to do it, .

Remember you are worth your time!
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