Oopps, I thought you mean't Naranon meetings...you can still go...great help to me.
I am ONLY speaking for myself, I would never spend another day with an addict or one who is supposedly in recovery. The stats speak for themselves, and life is too short (especially for me) to keep riding on the rollercoaster from h#ll. All the drama and chaos is too much for me, plus the I, I, Me, Me mentality level drives me ape sheet. I now concentrate on me, my peace and well-being.
I would suggest that you watch his actions, forget his words, they mean nothing and go from there, take one day at a time, then make your decision.
My Best...Dolly