Gee my heart goes out to you--I agree why didn't he just get out 20 years ago and
isn't it a mess how they can always turn it around so it is your fault. I'm so sorry for what you are going through. Hopefully most of the 20 years that he was sober were good--thats something--some of us would be thrilled with 20 good years. Please
stay in touch and let us know how you are.---Smiles--Dee