Deja Vu
After being married for 25 years, and h being sober for 20 of those years, he has moved out and informed me he is ready to resume his drinking and drugging lifestyle. I have been down that road and told him, no way was I going backwards in life. He has made the choice to stay out of the relationship, since I have given him an "ultimatum". I wish he would have made this decision 20 years ago when he made the choice the first time. I have invested all those years with a partner I thought was going to grow old with me. How sad. Thanks for letting me vent.