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Old 01-11-2013, 09:19 PM
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BoxinRotz
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Rosie, He doesn't need you to get sober AND stay sober. That is HIS desire, fight, loss, success.

Rosie, I quit smoking 2 weeks ago. No matter what, my husband can not make me smoke. Only I can do that. Just like only he can fall off the wagon. We have choices in life Rosie and he alone will make his no matter what you say or do for him. At the end of the day, it's his choice just like it's my choice to smoke or not.

Personally, I would walk away. I wouldn't invest anymore time in this. He has friends and family and support out there. You are not his end all, be all. Sometimes, you have to weed the friendship garden and this is a weed I would rip out and lay in the sun and run the mower over.
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