Wow!! The top of my head just blew off after reading this. And I do not smoke pot or anything else. I'm actually a recovering alcoholic. You'd think I'd know better than to get into a relationship with an active addict. When I stopped smoking cigarettes and learned more about smoking and addiction, it really begin to shed light on my partners addiction. But like yourself, didn't realize the extent of the disease. Mine or my partners.
After reading your post, I don't feel as angry at myself for leaving.
Thank You,