Curmudgeon, Electrical Engineer, Guitar God Wannabe
Join Date: Jan 2012
Location: Where the mighty arms of Atlas hold the heavens from the Earth
Posts: 3,403
How do you go "no contact"? By going "no contact".
I don't mean to be flippant, because I understand that it's an incredibly hard and painful decision. So, my only counsel would be when you decide to finally do it, however you tell him, do it with love, with grace, and with compassion.
I like to say just because we love someone doesn't mean we're meant to be with them.
I would give whatever supports you have a heads up and lean on them during what will be an incredibly difficult time for you. And if you need to PM, I'm always around.
God Bless,
ZoSo