Love???? NO CONTACT
Dear friends and members
I have recenly posted two threads which contradict each other. I am not in a good place. But I read all you say and thank God for you all and your wisdom (Englishgarden, Crazybabie and everyone else). I need to go 'NO CONTACT'. But how do I do this? H is such a part of my daily life.... we speak 10 times a day... sms all the time and see each other all the time... do I just out of the blue stop contacting him??? Do I speak to him first and tell him what I am doing - do I offer him an explanation???? Just so confused right now...... Shouldn't I at least speak to him and explain myself???? The last conversation today is he is coming back with me to South Africa - he is being admitted back into rehab and as of this very moment I am part of his support group - but I just can't do this anymore. My heart aches and I am tired. I feel I am reaching the end. I find every meeting with him exhausting. The highs and the lows. Just tired. What do I say to him??? How do I do this??