Her kids from previous marriage - 15 and 18. She has split custody with her ex husband. They lived with us in our (really my) house for the past 8 or 9 years every other week. They moved out with her at the beginning of November. I believe they know of the affair and the circumstances of why they all left my house. Although it took me years to accept them as my own, it is truly painful as every day that goes by I feel my bonds with them disappearing.