Weren't you able to obtain a restraining order from his recent act of domestic violence??
Time to look at him for what he has become A DEMON POSSESSED ZOMBIE. Contact is like selling your soul to the devil!
I swear to God, when my husband was in active addiction and was living in a fancy hotel - that room was filled with the most evil presence. Words can not describe it. I had to leave!! Then I had to pull over because I felt almost high on something. I stopped, prayed and swore I would never enter that room again and I never did!!`
ETA - at the point in time, my husband gave me the chills, a very creepy feeling of evil. I could hardly look at him and I even hated his voice. Had he not sought recovery very soon there after, I wouldn't have been able to stay in contact anymore. And to be honest, it took me a while to get over that feeling. Its something I never want to feel again. If that feeling ever comes back, we are DONE!!!!!!!! It was that powerful!!