The bottom line for me would be that he is using an ILLEGAL drug in my home and since he is a minor, I would be held responsible.
short, sweet, sane and reasonable. and yet, i could not come up with that on my own. seriously, i couldn't. i am wondering why, but i figure alanon will get me there, sooner or later.
anyway, i'm going to adopt this as my own. thank you for making it so completely clear. this helps a LOT.