From what I can remember, I went to Penn State. Same deal...I applaud you for realizing your problem, that puts you ahead of the game. I too would look into AA meetings on campus or in town. Nothing changes if nothing changes and most of us drunks had to get a whole new circle (or network) of friends to maintain our sobriety. Being as young as you are, that is a task indeed. But once you get going in the right direction, it gets easier with time. Sober folks have events and do fun things...sober. Having a real heart to heart with your girl might make sense. If she is understanding and really loves you she will support your choices. Maybe take her to a meeting to get a better scope of the situation or go to a Al-Anon meeting together...stay strong and keep up the solid effort!