forgot to mention
I forgot to mention that you might want to contact a Guardian Ad Litem (GAL) and see what they suggest. They are attorneys assigned to a child by the court, and their job is to make suggestions to the court of what and who is considered to be in the best interest of the child. They will go to each person's home, interview the child and assess the situation, then make their recommendations. Hugs to you, hang in there, you are all this little boy has.