Originally Posted by
Fathom 
I'm trying to decide which my XAH lost first - my trust or my respect. I suspect it was my respect because I can pinpoint an exact moment when my trust was shattered, but I had known he was dingy in the head for a while before then. The question for myself then becomes... Why would I trust someone I don't respect? And, for that matter, why might I respect someone I don't trust?
...pondering...
Fathom
Yeah thats a double whammy... You can respect someone you don't love but I'm not certain the reverse us true.