I think trust is extremely important in any relationship- with my AH I lost all trust in him due to the lying etc and then I started to lost trust in myself which is not right but I put myself in that position over and over again. I am breaking free - trusting in my HP. Trying to learn to rely on myself again to trust myself and my decisions and trust the people in my life who I know are there for me - my sisters my brothers in law- my sons my old friends. That is all I can think of - :-)