Old 12-14-2012, 03:36 PM
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Oh so sorry about this how traumatic. Of course you prayed for her to live, you care - you probably always will. I can't really think of anything sadder than dying of alcoholism or addiction. I sure hope this is it for her - that she lives, and not in a vodka coma.

You know Djayr, sometimes it is too late. There is too much water under the bridge - could you love her like you once did, trust her, be with her and forgive her for all the torture she put you through? Sometimes forgiveness comes when we are away from what caused it. I can't answer those questions for you of course only you can. Perhaps yo uhave already laid out and planned your new single life and are getting a little excited about the future.

You certainly don't have to discuss it with her now and I wouldn't. I wonder if she will bring it up with you soon?

If it were me I would press the hold button for a while. See how you feel when she is back at home and healthier.

I hope she is better.
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