Yes, he is expecting too much too soon. He has always been a very impatient person and this is no exception. I know I need to stay my own course and I will do that. Its hard not to get involved but little by little I'm starting to get it. Over the years I have let my caretaking consume me so much that I have neglected myself and my health and mental well being are suffering. Its not something that I ever thought I was doing until it was too late and I started suffering physically. I need to get myself back, I'm too young to feel this broken.