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Old 12-13-2012, 10:52 AM
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PohsFriend
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Just reread some of this.

Pippi - I don't know if he knows about or might learn about your involvement in SR but there are some things you never want to joke about in writing ever.

Say for example if someone said they wish their ex would just go ahead and do X. If X happens a reasonable person has to wonder if they were set up. In family courts it is amazing how often a spouse will have someone punch them right after an exchange and ten call the police to blame the ex.

So regardless of what he puts in writing (you can't control that) you can proactively send his attorney a note outlining what you have agreed to and specifically rejecting anything you want it known you do not agree to.

REMOVE ALL EMOTIONAL WORDS from said note.

Also, for 100 bucks you can get a micro camera with audio and video - this is a must of you suspect conflict may ensue. It allow you to document and helps remind you to keep your head.

Criminal attorneys see the worst of society on their best behavior, family law attorneys see the best of society on their worst behavior. Be smart. Lawyers attempt to make men appear dangerous and the counter is to make women look hysterical. Forget whether that is ethical as it doesn't matter - its just reality and you need to understand that :-)

Good judges look at which parent is more likely to include the other and be reasonable when deciding custody issues.
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