I asked him to commit to staying elsewhere for the duration of his visit, and he said he would stay in a hotel after his arrival. I looked it up and he booked for two nights. He says he will stay up to a month in our part of the world. He is trying to stay in our home and the lawyer wants me to get him to commit in writing to a hotel stay for the entire period.
Waiting to see what legal advice I get tomorrow. It's not looking great. AH is a frighteningly intelligent and charming man and he has pretty much always gotten what he wants.
Right now, he wants to win. He wants to look good, he wants lots of attention and sympathy, and perhaps he wants me to suffer.
Boy, I AM not my most positive self tonight! Rats.