Thread: Honesty
View Single Post
Old 11-20-2012, 10:34 AM
  # 23 (permalink)  
soberlicious
 
Join Date: Aug 2011
Location: "I'm not lost for I know where I am. But however, where I am may be lost ..."
Posts: 5,273
Originally Posted by MissyShelle76
Too often, we look to outside resources as the reason for our problems instead of realizing, we are more often than not, the reason for our problems. But that also means we are capable of being the reason for our successes.
Absolutely true. None of us is responsible for what has happened to us as children. But we are absolutely responsible for the choices we make as adults. My children were a huge part of my decision to change. I put them in a dire situation. My behavior was reprehensible. I decided that I would no longer use anything as an excuse to continue to be actively addicted. Not my past, not my feelings, not my fear, not my pain. I literally took my life back. Very empowering indeed. Glad you're here Missy...always forward...strive on with diligence. xo
soberlicious is offline