I agree with Dollydo. I once wrote a letter to my AH, and he just taunted me with it throwing back lines that he thought were cheesy.
I'm feeling like you are right now, but I know it's because it's ME that's depriving ME of something I need--he's not depriving me of it. He's going to do what he's going to do. I need to detach and just figure out what I'm lacking and go get it for myself.
I do understand the frustration. Consider what he told you: "Now's the time for you to get your life back together, too."
When I get angry these days it's because I haven't been true to me--I have given up too much energy on things I can't control