Originally Posted by onlythetruth
For me, the concept of "never" simplifies things: I like the fact that the question of drinking has been asked and answered, so I can move on to other things.
This is me exactly! Asked and answered...no need to hash it over, wonder, ponder. It's moot. THAT is what has freed me.
I put it to bed with "never", now I have so much more brain space for other cool stuff.