your son already know what his dad is!! a drunk and a liar!! take your son to alateen take your self to alanon. i had to do this for my kids. my kids watched the news with me a couple of nights ago and we watched my husband being care flighted from his wreck(DUI OF COURSE) make your son safe and guard him from the drunk choices. you would not have a stranger watch your son drunk so why do we give our drunk husbands the chance?!? you can still love your husband but the best thing you can do is take care of yourself !!!