Thank you Collingwood for your input ~
While I do believe it is great for sep/div parents to work together for the children's sake ~ it is also important for us codies to not step over the line to the enabling ~
It is not one person's responsibility to make sure another adult has a way to spend time with their children ~ especially if it crosses boundaries and makes others uncomfortable ~
nothing wrong with making a different plan and finding a workable happy medium ~
just a suggestion ~
PINK HUGS,