Originally Posted by caligirl71

Thanks everyone! Yes I could get a job but we both agreed after my second child was born that I would stay home with them. I gave up my awesome management job to raise my family. I'm active in the schools and their sports activities after school. In my head, I thought I was doing a great job raising my kids, but I guess without the money coming in that he can gamble away, he isn't happy.

My appointment is this morning with an attorney. My little one woke up with a fever and sore throat. For a moment I thought it was a sign that I shouldn't go...that maybe I was doing the wrong thing. But then I realized I need to find out my options so my mom is coming to watch him. This sucks, but I know it is something I need to do for my sanity....!