I made a pact with our marriage therapist that I wouldn't file anything until we've done 90 days with counseling.
OK, this made me SPIT NAILS!!!
What the ever-loving F***?
I can NOT believe a counselor would say something like that. A PACT??? Holy hell. That's just wrong on so many levels I can't even...
No, here, I think this is it: The counselor basically gave your AH carte blanche to do whateverthehell he wants for 90 days, and is expecting you to not protect yourself and your son because you've made a pact with him/her.
That's bordering on abuse as far as I'm concerned.