Thank you for all the hugs and support. I have been reading posts everyday to keep up my emotional strength. My husband decided he can't have any contact with her for now. He can't even talk about her without getting furious. It is so difficult for me to listen to the things that he says. I don't blame him for his feelings and I do believe he will have a different attitude if she starts to make better choices.
As of today, she has been in detox for 5 days. I've been calling the facility and leaving supportive messages for her, since she can't talk until she is transferred to the rehab section. Hopefully that will be tomorrow.
Someday, I hope to be able to offer the support and kindness to others the way I have gotten it here. It has made all the difference to me. It has been such a source of strength.