Originally Posted by constellation

My AH was quite remorseful after his DUI. Then he got mean, he got resentful, he tried to blame me for my part(which really was no part at all, he just wanted to blame something).

I had a friend in Al Anon who told me that that phase was coming and I was ready for it. He is still drinking, the DUI was less than a year ago. He just doesn't drink in front of us as a family anymore. Sad. Just plain old sad.