Originally Posted by
jessiec 
My RABF has stopped drinking and has been working the AA program for 120 days
I was so done with this man in June -- I just had it with his alcoholism after two years. Then, he surprised me by seriously buckling down and getting his life together. He begged me to give him another chance - he loved me, didn't want to lose me, wanted to make all wrongs right.And now this?
Can anyone offer some perspective? Thanks for listening.
Jessie
The part that is bolded: He made those promises while still under the influence or newly sober, right?
He was offering his alcoholic manipulations of you and your relationship.
Was he just telling you what you wanted to hear?
He is still very early in his recovery and he may improve, or this may be as good as it gets.