Interrupted, reading your comments about the 'jail lines' really hits home.
Its funny, when I finally sucked it up and told him NO I wasn't bonding him out period, I actually had a couple pretty reasonable calls with him. Then he met his assigned lawyer and it was all about how the lawyer sucks and is the same one another guy had in there who got X number of years, so he needs to get out to pay for a lawyer, etc etc. So I guess my couple good calls were just until he figured out a new manipulation technique.
Argh, I just need to stop answering the phone for awhile me thinks. I want him to know the family supports him when he finds a new path, but just listening to him whine is not working for either of us.