Originally Posted by
dandylion 
Dear LIZ, I feel confused about your last statement. Maybe you could clarify--if you don't mind.
How is his list of things he wants you to change going to help you with your alanon 4th step work??? It sounds as if you are relishing the advent of a large battle---Really??
sincerely, dandylion
Well, I guess I see it as an opportunity to 'see the things about myself that I don't see for myself'. If he points out my personality, which right now he claims I have none, LOL, then I have a chance to work on those faults. It has nothing to do with doing battle. I'm looking forward to getting into things deep for myself. I figure the sooner I get to business on this stuff, the sooner I can be healthier and more emotionally sound.