Glad you are here and glad you posted.
Alcohol didn't devastate any area of my life either. However, it started to concern my wife and I honestly started to get worried about the health effects of it. Was alcohol causing a problem in my life? Yes. Therefore I had an alcohol problem.
I once also had to have a minor medical procedure and the forms asked how much I drank. Having to calculate that and report it was troubling to me. Do you think your doctor may be concerned about 35 beers a week? Might be worth asking him/her.
Wishing you comfort, peace, and all the best with your decision.