I love Theresa too....the BIG HAIR and the nails like scoops scream North Jersey....(ahem very different than sedate Princeton).
i keep wishing she would tell me that my XH now knows he was an idiot....he died 2 years ago of untreated alcohol related issues, leaving our daughter to clean up his mess.
i like the phrase "sober living skills", it's very helpful in describing how i have changed my lifestyle too. thanks