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Old 10-25-2012, 07:57 AM
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Dear CentralOhioDad, don't place anger on yourself for reacting. To react is normal (assuming appropriateness). It is really not a "normal" marriage to go around detaching all the time just in order not to trigger explosions.

In "normal" marriages, comments are made;comments are heard;negotiations are initiated; resolutions are reached;laughter is heard;there is love and growth;etc...........

I believe that it is enormously exhausting to be constantly on guard to detach, detach, detach.....

You are human, after all.

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