Old 10-22-2012, 02:54 PM
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Tuffgirl
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Originally Posted by dollydo View Post
Loyal
Sweet Minded
Good Listener
Friendly
Doesn't shout at me or call me names
Not a fussy eater
Accepts me for who I am
Understands that "No" is a complete sentence
Always happy to see me

I have just described the males that are currently in my life....My Dogs. Think that I'll stick with
them, so much more rewarding.
I agree with all above! My life is full right now as it is...

When the time does come, there is one thing I misunderstood in my marriage with my XRAH, which I understand now, is the concept of being emotionally available to have a relationship.

I have a lot of good things to say about my ex-husband. I married him, after all. But alcoholism kept him from being emotionally available. Next time, I want that. In my view, that allows for a more open minded approach to the day-to-day issues that arise in all relationships.
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